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Would you rather questions for couples

Questions for date night, road trips and finding out what your partner really thinks about camping.

Would you rather questions for couples (27)

  1. Would you rather go on a surprise trip or plan every detail of a trip together?
  2. Would you rather have a big wedding or elope, just the two of you?
  3. Would you rather cook dinner together every night or go out for dinner every night?
  4. Would you rather know everything your partner thinks or have your partner know everything you think?
  5. Would you rather live in a city apartment or live in a house in the countryside?
  6. Would you rather have a partner who makes you laugh or have a partner who makes you feel safe?
  7. Would you rather get breakfast in bed every Sunday or get a massage every week?
  8. Would you rather travel the world together on a tiny budget or stay home together in total luxury?
  9. Would you rather relive your first date or skip ahead to see your 50th anniversary?
  10. Would you rather always agree with each other or always have interesting debates?
  11. Would you rather have a partner who sings to you or have a partner who writes you letters?
  12. Would you rather spend a week together with no phones or spend a week apart with phones?
  13. Would you rather get matching tattoos or wear matching outfits for a year?
  14. Would you rather go camping together or go to a five-star spa together?
  15. Would you rather have your partner's family move in for a month or move in with your partner's family for a month?
  16. Would you rather get flowers every week or get one huge surprise every year?
  17. Would you rather do a long-distance year or live together in a tiny studio for a year?
  18. Would you rather win a dance contest together or win a cooking contest together?
  19. Would you rather get a pet together or get a garden together?
  20. Would you rather always pick the film or always pick the restaurant?
  21. Would you rather go back to the day you met or see the two of you at 80?
  22. Would you rather date someone with the same hobbies or date someone who teaches you new ones?
  23. Would you rather cuddle on the sofa all evening or go out dancing all night?
  24. Would you rather renew your vows every 10 years or never celebrate an anniversary again but get a holiday every year?
  25. Would you rather read your partner's diary or let your partner read yours?
  26. Would you rather have a partner who is always early or have a partner who is always late but always fun?
  27. Would you rather be the one who always says sorry first or be the one who is always forgiven?
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